TOXIC PEOPLE
motivating words or deeply hurt. Human beings are incredibly fragile, emotionally we are so sensitive that words can have great power to shape our lives. Those who downloaded negative comments that hurt us, we might call the "toxic people" and can be anyone: a friend, brother, boss, your mom or dad, and even our spouses. Your comments somehow sabotage our efforts to lead a happy and productive life.
A person can be toxic to someone and not for others. We all like to win respect, acceptance, recognition of others and to hear words of encouragement. Sadly, not always the case, the person need not toxic.
A person can be toxic to someone and not for others. We all like to win respect, acceptance, recognition of others and to hear words of encouragement. Sadly, not always the case, the person need not toxic.
How to recognize a toxic person and what to do if we encounter it is helpful
"How to identify?
1 Do you get in a bad mood or feel less after a talk with her?
2 Do you feel unattractive (a) being with this person?
3 Do you not know?
4 Do you feel headache, tense and you feel relief when you go?
5 Is In talking stutter or change of expression your face?
If you answered "yes", you will realize that these people change our behavior and our feelings. A person with low self-esteem will do its best to sabotage the relationship or to feel important, the root in most cases is jealousy and acted unreasonably. A toxic people bothered when another succeeds, as it is attractive, popular, charming, educated, etc. Live for to please everybody is impossible, and sacrifice certain things just to be "approved."
"toxic people" in Castilian. Other extracts sent more: Toxic people, also known as "vampires psychics "are those who have such low self-esteem and feel very depressed about themselves, that to get your mood, makes the other decays are infusing his confusion, insecurity, pain and sadness at his best: ordinary days that you look good, or a party, a birthday, a journey that illusion, a new job, any joy .. ..
may seem your best friend, your partner, and even seem to love you, but watch out in no time, can pass criticize, even to lie about your life, if necessary, provided on an "innocent" and "to help" so that your best moments fall.
What can be done directly ( to voice) or indirectly, by counting indiscretions true or not, the rest is absorbed by your joy people, through their own negativity camouflage Ada in "constructive criticism" which are before or after or during a nice party or meeting, you get a comment or say something to you, you poisoned the blood, or fight senseless cause you, and then you can hug and tell you that all is well, you forget everything, "but no longer fight (when you or did you come up) and enjoy the meeting ..... . But you can not, they succeeded. They feed kill you in one way or another, your illusions.
may seem your best friend, your partner, and even seem to love you, but watch out in no time, can pass criticize, even to lie about your life, if necessary, provided on an "innocent" and "to help" so that your best moments fall.
What can be done directly ( to voice) or indirectly, by counting indiscretions true or not, the rest is absorbed by your joy people, through their own negativity camouflage Ada in "constructive criticism" which are before or after or during a nice party or meeting, you get a comment or say something to you, you poisoned the blood, or fight senseless cause you, and then you can hug and tell you that all is well, you forget everything, "but no longer fight (when you or did you come up) and enjoy the meeting ..... . But you can not, they succeeded. They feed kill you in one way or another, your illusions.
Why make us destructive criticism?
Due to jealousy and envy, "for whom discontent and feelings of inadequacy provoke anxiety possession, success and love of others and the desire to have them for a himself, exclusively.
Never respond to physical or emotional violence, as attacks individuals become toxic only get victims who in reality are the true aggressors, which feeds its negative role in our existence is like trying to extinguish a fire throwing more fuel.
Threat When people at home are part of the toxic own family, can pose a real psychological problem, due to the continuity of existence and the link.
If you are at work, can jeopardize our continued work because our performance suffers continuing conflict.
Whether our parents, children or spouses, our bosses or coworkers , there are toxic people learn to treat, not to disrupt our life balance.
According to researcher Lillian Glass, the master formula for detoxify our relations is to communicate to deal with what bothers us the other and put it bluntly.
Keep sense of humor. Ease tensions and have fun with it toxic to the subject can respond and get the benefit of laughter.
There are times when a person seems to collapse our toxic mind, becoming the only thing we can think, which is harmful.
is important to stop thinking all the time on the problem, which only helps amplify it, as the mind is how a magnifying glass: what increased focus.
the book is Lillian Glass, "TOXIC PEOPLE"
Bruno Nieri
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